PARELATEby Legacy Athletes International
BUILT BY PARENTS WHO GET IT.

BE THEIR PARENT.
BECOME THEIR GREATEST LEADER.

BETTER CONVERSATIONS.STRONGER RELATIONSHIPS.HEALTHIER ATHLETES.

Personalized guidance for the moments sports parenting gets hard.

Your athlete does not always need another technical correction. Sometimes they need the person who knows them best to know what to say next.

PARELATE HELPS YOU FIND THE RIGHT WORDS.

7 days free. No credit card required.
Sports gets more complicated as they grow.

Ever wondered…

Every parent of an athlete has had these thoughts on the drive home. Most of them never get said out loud.

A father and his young athlete walking hand in hand after a game

“They had a terrible game. What do I say in the car?”

“Do I call the coach or make my kid handle it?”

“Am I pushing them toward excellence or putting too much pressure on them?”

“They want to quit. Do I let them?”

“They won't talk to me after games anymore.”

“I can't stand their coach. How do I keep my feelings from becoming their problem?”

“I played this sport. How do I stop coaching them?”

“I already said the wrong thing. How do I fix it?”

Sports doesn't come with
a parenting playbook.
Parelate does.

For the moments when you don't know what to say, what to do, when to step in or when to let them handle it.

That's where Parelate comes in

You bring the moment.
Parelate helps you handle it.

Tell Parelate what's going on

In your own words. The way you'd say it in the car.

It knows your athlete

Age, sport, level, position and what came before.

You get something usable

What to do, what to avoid, and words you can actually say.

Keep going

Follow up as the situation changes. Save it to your athlete.

A parent driving home at dusk while their teenage athlete looks quietly out the window
The car ride home

The game ends.
The parenting doesn't.

When they walk offThe ride homeWhen you get home

Before you break down the game. Before you tell them what they missed. Before you explain what they should have done.

They may already know.

They may need to talk.

They may be flying and want to celebrate.

They may need silence.

They may need perspective.

They may simply need their parent.

Parelate helps you know which one.

Game day

Before the game.
After the game.
On the ride home.

Know what to say when the moments around the game matter most.

BEFORE THE GAME

Help them walk in confident, supported, and ready to compete without adding pressure.

RIGHT AFTER

Know how to respond in those first few minutes, whether they played great, struggled, sat the bench, made a mistake, or are upset.

THE RIDE HOME

Turn one of the most important conversations in youth sports into a moment that strengthens your relationship instead of creating more pressure.

The hard games. The great games. The quiet rides home. The coach conversations. The moments when you’re not sure what to say. Parelate helps you handle them well.

Their next game starts before they ever step onto the field. Add their upcoming game and Parelate can help them prepare for the moments surrounding it.

Parelate isn’t here to help parents coach the sport. It’s here to help them parent the athlete.

Inside the membership

This is what you get at 9:41 pm.

Tell Parelate what happened. Get guidance built around your athlete, not a search result, not a forum, not advice for someone else's kid.

PARELATEMaya · 14
What's going on?
Playing timeConfidenceBenchedCoachPressureCar ride homeTeammatesQuitting
Or tell Parelate in your own words…
01 / The moment
PARELATEMaya · 14
Tell Parelate what happened
“My daughter got benched in the second half and hasn't said a word since we got in the car.”
How did she seem after?
Has this happened before?
Get guidance
02 / Your words
PARELATEMaya · 14
Your guidance
What may be going on
Embarrassment, and fear she's lost her place on the team.
What they need from you
A safe place to process before anyone tries to fix it.
What to do
Listen first. Let her tell it her way.
What to avoid
Don't criticize the coach in the car.
Try saying
“I know that hurt. Want me to listen, or think it through together?”
03 / Your guidance
THE MEMBER EXPERIENCE

Built for the moments sports brings home.

Questions. Celebrations. Tough losses. Coach conversations. Ride homes. Confidence. Pressure. Parelate helps you know what your athlete may need from you next.

  • ASK PARELATE

    Ask what's happening. Get guidance built around your athlete and the moment.

  • GAME DAY

    Prepare for the moments around the game, then respond as their parent.

  • RIDE HOME

    Know what to say, what not to say, and when saying less is better.

  • TALK TO THE COACH

    Know whether to step in, prepare your athlete to speak, and get the words for your own conversation when necessary.

  • HELP ME SAY IT

    Turn what you're trying to say into words your athlete can actually hear.

YOUR GUIDANCE
YOU SAID

Hunter got benched at halftime and shut down on the ride home.

01THE READ

Being benched in front of teammates lands hard at thirteen. The quiet in the car is usually embarrassment doing its work, not anger at you.

02YOUR ROLE RIGHT NOW
STEADY PRESENCE

He needs the ride home to feel safe, not like a review of what went wrong.

03SAY THIS
01 · TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF
“That was a hard way to spend a Saturday. I'm glad I got to watch you play.”
05WHAT TO DO
YOUR NEXT MOVE
Let the car stay quiet. Bring it up tomorrow, once he's had a night away from it.

Parelate provides parenting guidance, not medical, mental-health, or emergency care. If your athlete may be in danger or experiencing a crisis, get real-world help now.

GET CRISIS HELP

Not generic parenting advice. Guidance for your athlete, in this moment.

Your athleteTheir stageTheir sportCompetitive levelWhat is happeningHow they're taking itYour role in the momentPrevious context

A disappointed young athlete, an angry teenager, and an athlete coming off the best performance of their season don't need the same conversation.

Parelate helps you respond to the athlete in front of you.

Words matter

Same parent.
Same love.
Better words.

Instead of

“What happened out there?”

Try

“You looked frustrated out there. Want to talk about it?”

Instead of

“You need to work harder if you want more playing time.”

Try

“I know you want more minutes. What do you think is in your control right now?”

Instead of

“Your coach has no idea what he's doing.”

Try

“I can tell you're frustrated. What happened from your perspective?”

Instead of

“Why didn't you shoot more?”

Try

“I loved watching you compete today. What was your favorite part?”

Your words become part of their sports story.

Choose them well.

You're allowed to need guidance too.

Sometimes it's not their game you need help with.
It's your response to it.

Parelate gives you a place to work through the moment before the moment gets the best of you.

“I yelled after the game and I regret it.”

“Watching my kid sit the bench makes me furious.”

“I'm spending all this money and they're not working hard.”

“I know I'm putting pressure on them, but they're incredibly talented.”

“I think I care about this more than they do.”

“I know the sport. I can see everything they're doing wrong.”

“I'm jealous watching another kid get the opportunity I want for mine.”

“I already criticized their performance. Now I wish I hadn't.”

Built by a parent who gets it.

The heart behind Parelate.

I know sports from both sides. I was a Division I athlete, and today I’m the mother of an athlete. I built Parelate because I wanted to lead my own daughter well through sports, not just help her perform.

And I use it with her, too.

Parelate helps me think through the real moments we face: what to say after a hard day, when to encourage, when to listen, when to push, and when she simply needs her mom.

My years in leadership taught me a lot about developing people. Motherhood made it personal.

I built Parelate to help us raise strong athletes without losing sight of something even more important: the relationship we’re building with them along the way.

Amanda Zerilli, founder of Parelate, standing in a soccer stadium
Amanda Zerilli
Founder, Parelate
Former Division I Athlete • Leadership Author & Speaker • Mom of an Athlete
A parent listening to their athlete on empty bleachers

One year of knowing what to do
when sports gets hard.

PARELATE
$89/ Year

Seven days free. Then $89 a year of full access to Parelate guidance throughout your athlete's season.

7 days free. Then $89/year. Cancel anytime before your trial ends.

One membership. Every athlete in your family.

What's included
  • Ask Parelate about anything sports brings home
  • Game Day: before the game, after the game, on the ride home
  • The Ride Home: what to say, and when to say less
  • Talk to the Coach: step in, or help them speak first
  • Help Me Say It: your words, in a way they can hear
  • Profiles for every athlete in your family
  • Saved guidance you can come back to

You don't have to have all the answers.

You just need a better way to navigate the moments that matter.

7 days free. Then $89/year. Cancel anytime before your trial ends.